Understand the child in front of you.
Recognize four temperaments and the needs behind your child’s reactions. See why what works for one kid can fall flat with another.
A practical guide for the moments
that make up family life.
FOR THE GROWN-UPS RAISING THEM
Less arguing with your kids.
More enjoying them.
Understand what’s behind the pushback—and find words that help with shoes, homework, bedtime, and the moments in between.
A Grown-Up’s Guide to Kids’ Wiring
By Kathleen Edelman · Paperback
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Practical tools you can use today Six free companion videos
“This book has changed how we communicate with our kids.”
“a common language which makes it easier to resolve conflicts.”
A NEW WAY THROUGH THE EVERYDAY
When “I’ve asked you three times” isn’t working.
The same words can land differently with each child. Learn what your child needs to hear—and how to say it.
Know what to say next.
Use the book’s “Say This, Not That” examples to encourage strengths, meet needs, and build cooperation.
Keep it close. Put it to work.
Return to the color-coded tools as your kids grow. Watch six free teaching sessions to see the approach in action.
MEET YOUR GUIDE
Kathleen Edelman
For more than three decades, Kathleen has helped grown-ups understand how temperament shapes communication. Here, she brings that work to the relationships that fill your home.
Learn your child’s wiring, understand your own, and find a better way to talk to each other.
A few things to know.
What comes with the Guide?
Your paperback includes the temperament framework and practical, color-coded tools. Six companion teaching sessions are available to watch for free.
Explore the free book study videosDo I need to know my child’s temperament first?
No. Start with Part 1 to learn the four temperaments and recognize your child’s patterns. Part 2 gives you tools to use with each temperament.
Is it just for parents?
The Guide is also for grandparents, teachers, coaches, and other adults who care for kids. The examples help you understand different grown-up and child temperament pairings.
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Paperback · $24.99 · Six free companion videos
A Grown-Up’s Guide$24.99 · Paperback